IM BACK!!!!

YAY ME! I am back ladies and whatever gents read this. Had alot of family issues going on but I’m back and ready to help. I have received alot of emails of topics I should cover and it shall be done! Stay tuned! Xoxoxoxo ~LoveReallyBites

 

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Hey its Laura!

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Hello world:) Im Laura! I’d like to introduce myself. I’ve been blogging for 3 years now. I love it! I get to be vocal about the things I think about everyday life. When Cheyenne asked me to co write with Malinda and take over the blog for a bit, I jumped on it. I’m happy to have the chance to voice my thoughts on relationships and sex. I have been in a serious relationship for 5 years now and newly engaged!:) I must be doing something right. I’d love to give you ladies a lot of insight on love and what it took to get me to 5 years with the love of my life. Stay tuned and keep reading! 

 
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Introducing my co editors Laura and Malinda

Ok followers..I’m taking off due to some family drama (you know). But I will be back soon. In the mean time I want to introduce my beasties and my co writers Laura Neil, and Malinda Asherbraner.  They will take over for me for awhile. Maybe a week. Laura and Malinda have some awesome advice for u ladies and hope you enjoy them! Give them feedback:) until then…see ya!Image

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Relationships After A Breakup

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I felt it was only right posting this since my blog is about relationships.  Many women don’t know how to deal with a broken heart. Breaking up with your man/woman is always hard to do. In some cases it drives depression.  But why do we let the break up do this to us? It seems over the course of a relationship, we trick our minds into believing we cannot carry on or be without this person when in reality, you’ll live. There is always someone out there looking for a good woman/man. Why let the past break up ruin your love life? A lot of people I know tend to let what the last person did to them get in the way of finding happiness with someone else. That just isn’t fair.  And that’s why learning to deal with a breakup is important. If the past emotions are not dealt with then moving on is impossible. You will never be able to love someone else if your heart is still in the other persons hands. The biggest problem after a breakup is harboring the trust issues. If your ex betrayed your trust, (cheating, lies, ect.) then you tend to take it out on whoever comes next. That new person does not deserve that. They deserve an equal chance and your affection. This is why rushing into a relationship after a breakup is a horrible idea. There is no time to heal from the previous wounds which leaves the new relationship in a jam. Everyone deals with a break up differently. Some get over a relationship faster than others. You can’t turn love on and off like a light. A new love will never work if your not over the last one.  Healing after a breakup is a process that shouldn’t be taken lightly. That same person you dated after your breakup that you ruined due to past issues, could have been your future husband/wife if you would have waited.  Timing is key. Duh!

 
 
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Why Men Say Women Are Crazy

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Oh yeah! I couldn’t wait to start this post. It’s a post that’s all too familiar with me. “Why Men Say Women Are Crazy” kinda says it all. Men seem to have this magic switch to all women that pisses us off at the drop of a hat. Every man in my life knows how to get me to a boiling point. I know every woman knows that boiling point I’m talking about. You know, when your so mad you can’t even spell to cuss him out via text? When your snapping at everyone else around you? When during the argument you just stop caring and just want him to leave you alone? That’s the anger I’m talking about. Hell, that’s what inspired this post. And the worst part is when they insist on arguing when you have clearly given up and don’t give a damn.  I feel it. I know. When my significant other makes me that mad, the wheels in my brain start to turn. I immediately start to plot. That right there women, is indeed why men say we are crazy. Lets face it. We are. You ladies know it as we’ll as I do. How many times has he made you mad enough to throw something at his head? That is crazy! How many times have you burned pictures? Slashed tires? The old sugar in the gas tank solution? Bleached his clothes? The best of all, keyed his car?  Or any of the other evil things we do to get even…and then we go back and think..are we really even??  Thats the crazy stuff I’m talking about. We all think that way. Even the most timid women have a vindictive streak in them. Men could and can drive a woman to kill. Ever seen “Snapped” on Oxygen? Proof is right there. But, as I do watch things like “Snapped”, I also think….Why?? Why throw your whole life away for a man that wasn’t worth the air he breathed? Same question applies to all women. Why let him get you to that point of keying his car? That’s what he wants. A rise. When men that intend to hurt you do so, they look for the reaction. They wanna see you cry and beg.  Then you have your women (much like myself), who doesn’t cry, I just simply get even. But even that is the wrong way to go. That is giving him that reaction he wants. He wants you to feel the pain. So the question is…..why give him a reaction? That only feeds his ego and most of the reactions women have just make us look desperate and a tad trashy. If your gonna cry, not in front of him. You should always stay strong. Hold your ground, and if he is no good then let him go. Don’t feed into what he wants. Just breath and handle it like a lady. You won’t regret it. If more women follow this advice, men would have one less reason to call us crazy..

 
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How To Know If He Loves You

I know this article has been done a million times over. And the particular one i like is another blog. ( please see the comments under “Confessions Of A Woman” for other blogger) Ok. So from friends and family I got the following question.. How do you know when your man loves you?? Well for starters he will let your know. I also understand that men say I love you for alternate reasons(another post another day). That’s not what I mean. It’s not when he says it during sex. It’s not when he says it just to shut you up during an argument. It’s when he says it just because. There are multiple ways to know if a man loves you. Paying attention is key. ( hence my last post). Those days where you go to leave the house and your wearing the shortest shorts and he stops you. Yep..that’s because he loves you. If he didn’t say anything at all is when you need to worry. I’m gonna tell you a secret to know if he truly is in to you; next time you get out the shower and get dressed, do so in front of him or at least in his glance. Also watch him. If there is love there, you will catch him watching you dress, admiring you. If not, he won’t care otherwise, he will be rushing you to get dressed. Another way you ask?? Watch him when your out in public with him. If he is interested in the girls passing by and doesn’t hear half your conversation, it isn’t love. However, if he loves you, he will pay attention to your date with him. He would have eyes for no other woman. Now I’m not saying this is the only way to know. Every relationship, every man is different. Every woman is different. What I find signs of love may be not what you find signs of love. That’s where you trust your heart. 

 
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Why Men Cheat?

imageWhy do men cheat? And I don’t mean ALL men just majority.  I’ll tell you why they cheat. For some reason women get this misconception that men cheat only for sexual gratification, or “you think im not good enough”. NOT TRUE!! There are so many other reasons why men cheat. Women tend to spend so much time on making sure he thinks we are the best in bed that we forget other things. For instance, most women are not sports fans. Men like sports. When is the last time you sat down next to your man and watched a football game with him? Even pretended to? If you have to think about it, then it’s been too long ago. When is the last time you picked up your Xbox360/playstation controller and played a game with your man if he is in to that? Again, if you had to think, it’s been too long. If you can’t name your mans favorite movie because its not something you would ever watch, your kinda asking for it. Now, play reverse. If he dared not know these things about you it would be world war 3. So again, Why do men cheat? A HUGE reason is because, some women simply don’t pay enough attention. Believe it or not your man may not ever say it, but he wants just as much attention from you as he gives you. He wants you to want to do the things he likes to do too. If you knock him down every time he says he wants you to do something he likes, he is gonna seek it elsewhere. And there is where the cheating comes in. If he can’t get any attention from you then another woman will always be the option. Like I said, role reversal, what would you do? The difference is that men don’t sit and bitch and whine, they just go cheat. We whine first. Thats the only difference. Pay attention to your man. Your relationship can be spared a lot of heart ache that way…..And remember ladies…what you won’t do…another one will…mentally, emotionally, and physically(another convo for another time)..

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